Within yourself you always can find peace and satisfaction. Align the centre of your attention with the flow and speed of your soul and you will blossom and shine. It means to look and listen and be attentive within yourself in order to catch the flow of nature. All information is available within you. There is no need from outside, it’s all habit. You can make anything your habit. Habit can be based on fear or pleasure, which are positive and negative poles. Habitual rituals are either to escape of facing and finishing your fear or to increase your pleasures.
And why all of this?
All this effort happens because you looked the whole world judging and choosing between so-called good and so-called bad emotions. But this alone is not enough to adapt to something strange, it takes pressure also: heat to melt it and meld it into your system. Pressure happens by authorities and superiors which force you to adapt to their rules. They mean well but rarely reflect upon themselves. Are they creating the best possibilities for their child to develop according to the wish of Creator (be strong, self-sufficient, radiant, aligned with nature, self-intelligent, kind and friendly) or are they trying to solve their own problems by forcing their child to be and behave according to their own comfort and non-intelligence.
Babies bring purity and love to this Earth, they are still fresh and untouched by the rules of society. If you could observe their natural behaviour and natural development your whole system would become clean as well. Impurities are nothing else than coverings of your beingness by rules and pressures put upon you throughout your life. But you can break the circle by not applying the same rules and pressures upon your child. It will take a lot of self-awareness and self-control. Find your strength in focus and determination to learn and grow and make this world a better place for all.